Ladies, find a man who you deserve.
Find one who notices the goosebumps on your thighs, rubs his hands together and blows his hot breath on his palms, then rubs his warm extremities on your legs.
Find a man who is dependent on you in some respects, yet invaluable in others. You should both better the other.
… opens his eyes on a lazy Sunday morning, smiles sleepily, and kisses your elbow, because it’s the first skin he can get to, and he needs to touch his lips to you immediately.
… who makes you laugh uncontrollably and genuinely.
… who appreciates YOU: your sense of humor, your quirks, your un-made up face.
… who doesn’t even flinch when you storm in the morning, angry and ugly; pissed at everyone, pissed at life, pissed at the morning sun. He just simply says “Coffee?” (Bonus points for making it himself)
… who doesn’t lie.
… who doesn’t judge.
… who hopes that you’ll talk back, then truly LISTENS when you do.
Ladies, you deserve the best, as do I, though sometimes it’s hard to realize that. We make excuses, we try to change them.
Love isn’t supposed to be hard.
P.S.- I compiled this list based on my son’s actions toward me within the past 24 hours.
P.P.S.- Before you all “aww” about his behaviors, please note that on the flip side he outwardly refused to make his bed and/or clean his room, smacked his sister on the arm, and made up a song with the chorus, “Girls are such stupid-faces, with dumb butts.”